Thursday, May 1, 2014

Gruene, TX

Gruene, Texas is one of my favorite places on earth.
Not just because it is a cool little town, but because every corner, store, and dance hall has a story to be told by a trip we have taken in the past.

Whether it was a family trip as a kid-- or a river trip with friends.
Gruene is so nostalgic to me.


Wendy and I took the initiative to book a trip there for my 30th birthday.
Although it was actually Lance's birthday... or just a few days from it... so technically, it was a weekend for the both of us.

As soon as I posted the first picture on my Instagram, everyone had the same comment or text to me::  I wish I was there because I know how hard y'all are laughing.

And it is true.
We have been friends with Mark and Wendy, as a couple, since the day they went on their first date.
Although Wendy was a friend of my brother's long before that-- and Mark (Pepper) was to Lance.
We have laughed a lot over the years.
It honestly is what we do best.

They are the true definition of friends to me, because there is no work to it.
We can talk every day for a week straight, or go 6 months without seeing each other, and everything is the exact same.
It is such an easy relationship like that.

Wendy and I are so similar in that we are both passionate, honest and will literally talk to anything that moves...  or doesn't move.  And we both hand out compliments to strangers like they're business cards.

But after this weekend, we realized that Wendy is more like Lance than me.
They both like cake, they both like ice-cream... and neither like confrontation.
I'll get to that.

***
Lance planned our drive around our stops getting there.
First, West for kolaches.
And then Salt Lick for BBQ, which honestly was just okay.

We spent a few hours in the San Marcos Outlet mall, and then arrived at our beautiful cottage-- walking distance from Gruene Hall.





Ray Wylie Hubbard played at Gruene Hall on Friday night, and we listened to him from our table at Grist Mill.




We woke up Saturday morning and went for breakfast at a cute little cafe called Buttermilk Cafe.  We got pedicures, walked around the shops in Gruene while the boys drank beer in Gruene Hall.  I tried to drink my first Bloody Mary at the Gristmill which tasted like alcoholic fire, and $10 wasted.
I had 'happy birthday' sang to me from Wendy in a crowded cupcake shop.
Or maybe we were the only crowd... Who knows!

We had Lunch at Mozie's, which was amazing.  We went to the river, and almost fell in; and we went home with the intentions of taking naps before Stoney-- but never did.

It was pretty perfect.



As much as Wendy and Lance like their sweets--
Mark and I like our food.
And even though we had a late lunch, we were too hungry to concert before we grubbed.

Every meal we had in Gruene was incredible and Gruene River Grill was no exception.
(Wendy even re-made my Asian salad there, as soon as we got home!)

Stoney was an awesome time-- and the friends we made in there were pretty fun too.








Lance and Mark got to talk to Stoney on their trip to the restroom and asked asked him to play Empty Glass for us...  Wendy I were less impressed with talking to him, but wanted to stalk his girlfriend to see what she looked like.  
Which we tried to do...
But were too over-eager, and missed them both in our search--
And had we stayed with our husbands, they shook their hands on the way out.

We swung back to Mozie's, since it was the only place open, after the concert.
And it is there where I realized that I love Mark not only the way for the way he rocks his jeans (from the back Mark, --he'll twist this on me if he can), or for the way he looks at Wendy-- still 87 years later-- and adores her like I do... for the way he pacifies her moods-- just like Lance does mine, or the way he cries when he laughs-- every single time...
but also because he's "ride or die", just like me.  And together, we don't back down!
Unfortunately our other halves do...
And we didn't stay there long.

We sat by the pool for a while and then I went to bed while Lance and Mark talked Wendy into calling the Whataburger for a delivery.  That didn't happen.  


We headed out Sunday afternoon, ready to see our babies.  ....It was Lance and I's first time to leave them more than 24 hours.
But not without eating at Adobe Verde, as we have every time I have ever been to Gruene as our last meal.




Cheers to Gruene!
Cheers to birthdays!
Cheers to alone time as spouses rather than parents!
...and cheers to good food, good wine, good music and great friends.

Oh! ...and all of those little dip samples that I ate every time I was hungry, laced with unwashed hands and double dipped crackers.
I can't help it.  They're my favorite.

Monday, April 28, 2014

Beckham is three





Beckham is three.

There are days when it feels like forever.
Not only long and hard and never-ending....
but like a soul that I have known my entire life-- or maybe even before I was born.

Somehow he wiped away the anxieties I had the first go around,
and though he refused sleep his first few months on this earth...
We stuck together--
nursing and chatting...
and he would look directly into my eyes, listening, like he knew me too.

One was a hard year for me...
and him too.
He couldn't talk and I didn't adjust and there were many days I thought I was failing him.
That seems like a million years ago now,
and though I honestly feared that he and I wouldn't have the bond I have with Maddox,
it feels crazy to admit that now.

We click.

I admittedly wanted him to be a girl.
I dreamed of bows and glitter and fingernail polish.
But he completes me.
This boy.
Who is 100% boy.
With his daddy's brown eyes, my brother's blonde hair, and his mommy's determination...
And has since the day he came home.

I am sure that girls are just precious,
but there is nothing I love more than soaking up the play between these two.
I picture God raising his eyebrows while I watch them at work,
like, "I got you.  I always have."
because it is honestly better than diamonds dipped in gravy.

Beckham is the ying to Maddox's yang.
I have never seen two humans that love each other like they do.
Like they have, since the day that they met.


Maddox makes the plans and Beckham takes action.
Maddox asks permission and B makes it happen.
Maddox showers me with compliments and kisses,
Beaky loves my soul with magnetic energy.

I fear sending Maddox to school because he is truly Beckham's right hand and best friend on this earth.
Seriously, we have to get on to Maddox for kissing Beckham too much.
Like in the middle of his baseball games... or when Beckham is already asleep.
"but he just can't help it", he tells us, "he just loves that little guy."
And we do too.

Beckham is perceived by most as quiet and a thinker...
spending his time building, doing, creating, working...
almost unseen, and never far from Maddox.

He is also ornery, assertive, and headstrong.
Almost impossible to sway once his mind is made up.
A quality that I adore.
I truly believe he is capable of moving mountains one day,
if he chooses to use that energy for good.

Three years feels like minutes.
And also a lifetime.
A depth of love that there aren't enough words to describe.
And a infinity of love.

***
We had a small little party at home with the people who mean the most to us,
and it was just perfect.

He is perfect.
I love him so...

Every second of every minute, since the day I found out we were pregnant.
My tiny.
He is three.